During my adolescent years, I wanted to be popular and viewed as one of the prettiest girls in school who all the boys liked and secretly or openly expressed interest in. Well, I wasn’t popular nor was I classified as one of the prettiest girls in school. And I don’t think I need to state how I wasn’t the object of affection for the boys in my class.

Now that I am older, I don’t feel the need to be viewed as one of the prettiest women anywhere, nor do I seek to be popular—well, maybe as a writer, but I digress. I am more interested in being found by someone who accepts and loves me as I am, which includes my personality and non-physical attributes.

As you can tell by the title of this post, I joined the dating app WooPlus. I learned of its existence through one of my male friends who inquires about my dating life regularly. I initially decided to check it out for a suggestion story on the Diary of a Stylish Buxom Beauty blog, but then I thought, what harm would it do to check it out for personal reasons too?

So far, it doesn’t seem to be that different than meeting people in person. In all honesty, I’m not sure what I expected. However, I didn’t expect to receive the number of interests that I’ve gotten so far considering I haven’t completed my profile. The only things I’ve posted are my name and photo, which makes me conclude the “likes” I’ve gotten are shallow and superficial. Furthermore, one of my “suitors” asked, “Do you have a big booty?” I realize this is a plus-size dating app and the people who join are attracted to and prefer fuller figures, but could you ask about where I work, if I believe in God, or what interests me before we discuss whether or not I have a donkey? Please? I do, but that is beside the point.

The more I think about it, joining the app may not have been a bad idea after all. It has reinforced my expectations of a potential partner. I want someone who will invigorate me, which comes from learning about me. I don’t necessarily think WooPlus doesn’t offer a platform that can fulfill this requirement, and what I’ve experienced thus far was beneficial nonetheless. I know what I want and I’m not interested in settling for less.