“But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you” - Matthew 5:44 KJV

When I woke up Thursday morning, I felt disheartened, and it didn’t take a long time for me to identify the problem. The day before, I had an encounter with a coworker—who isn’t the easiest person to work with—and it wasn’t pleasant at all. Please don’t misunderstand me, I know everyone who has come in contact with me doesn’t consider me to be wonderful or even tolerable, but I try to be pleasant with everyone I come across—for the most part anyway. After I recognized what was causing my downcast spirit, I decided to pray about it.

As I began to pray, I found myself asking for things that would only benefit me. I was praying for what I thought would make me feel better. Then the thought “pray for her” came to my mind. So, I changed the entire tone of my prayer. I took the focus off of me and I began to pray for her. I prayed for her family and their well-being.

When I got to work, I sent an email in response to her inquiries. About an hour later, she responded by stating she had completed what I needed.

I wholeheartedly believe my obedience to God’s voice caused a difference in the interaction I had with my coworker.

“When a man’s ways please the LORD, he maketh even his enemies to be at peace with him.” - Proverbs 16:7 KJV

I learned an invaluable lesson. It behooves me to take the time to pray for those who mistreat me and those I perceive to be my enemies. Not necessarily a prayer that consists of my desires for them to be kinder toward me, but a request that they are strengthened, and more importantly, come to the knowledge of Christ in the pardoning of their sins.

This is “My heels in life'“—follow me as I follow Christ…