Generally speaking, I believe we, as a culture, spend a lot of energy focusing on the “next thing” rather than appreciating the right now. This thought typically enters my mind as holidays approach. There are a few days before Thanksgiving on the calendar, yet my eyes captured Christmas decorations on homes and in shopping centers a few days ago. Considering my favorite holiday is Thanksgiving, I realize I could be a bit biased, but I often wonder if we should focus a little more on giving thanks.

Nothwithstanding what I was taught about the origin of the Thanksgiving holiday and realizing the horrible truth of what transpired shortly thereafter, I look forward to the day. It always reminds me of family. I recall gathering at my Auntie’s house. It always felt inviting and warm, filled with my aunts, uncles, cousins, chatter, laughter, and of course, food!

As I look back, I’m saddened by how much has changed. There are so many of my loved ones who are no longer here. And those of us who remain have aged, and we don’t move as quickly as we once did. Whether good or bad, this reality influences me to reminisce about the days of my youth; however, a recent interaction with my mother gave me a new perspective on the “here and now.”

Earlier this week, I took my parents to their medical appointments, and on the way home, my mother began reminiscing about things she “used to do” in the areas we passed. In the midst of her “trip down memory lane,” her focus shifted, and she began to give God praise. I heard her say, “Lord, I thank you for what I can do, now.” Her statement obviously resonated with me. I need to do a better job of demonstrating gratitude for the way things are now. Yes, I had wonderful experiences when I was younger, and yes, some of those things can’t be repeated now, but I appreciate what can happen.

God has extended us grace, mercy, and breath. Let’s use these blessings wisely by making every day a day of thanksgiving.